Escapism is Not Freedom

I meet way too many people who confuse escapism with freedom.

This is a deadly confusion for one's career and one's life.

Escapism is when we run away, when we numb the pain, or when we avoid things.  Escapism is not always constructive.  At best it rests, recharges, and inspires us.  At worse it lets us ignore things until the pain goes away.  However, escapism is not actively engaging issues, solving problems, and improving things.

Freedom is when we have the ability – the skill, resources, and opportunity – to make a decision and follow through on what we want.  Freedom is the ability to choose and not have circumstances or others dictate your choice for you.  Freedom is the ability to take and face the consequences of choice.

These two are NOT the same.

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Stereotype-Fu: Stereotype Evolved

This is the wrap-up to my original "run" of Stereotype-fu columns.  I'm sure there will be more, but I've covered most of my intended materials. 

I'm going to close with a piece of advice near and dear to my heart: Being Stereotype Evolved.

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