Career

Introduction: The Dark Side Of “Do What You Love”

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Me, I’m a positive guy. You’ve been reading my stuff, following this blog. You know I try to keep an upbeat attitude

There’s a reason for that – a good attitude is essentially engineering a self-fulfilling prophecy. I’m not talking being naïve, I’m talking about keeping the kind of attitude that focuses on and maximizes the positive. I’ve seen more people defeated by a self-ruining narrative than a naïve one, to be honest – we’re usually our own worst enemies

However, there also times to admit that, when we get down to it, some things are awful. In fact, some good things are awful for that matter, or have awful sides.

And this comes to the phrase “Do What You Love” when it comes to talking jobs. You know it, you hear it, it’s practically de rigueur for any half-baked career coaching or even fully baked career coaching. Even I use it now and then, though I go beyond it.

The basic idea of “Do What You Love” as career advice makes sense; find a way to do what you like for money. There are two problems.

1) It’s been used as a panacea, chanted endlessly. I hear it so much that *I* am reducing how I use it because it’s become an empty, deceptive catchphrase.
2) In many cases it’s cruel, and it can even be elitist and deceptive as Slate Magazine notes.

Frankly, “Do What You Loke” is now a phrase of diminishing usefulness, pap advice, and concealing hard truths. So know what?

It’s time to go to the dark side.

For the next few weeks we’re going to look at what “Do What You Love” conceals, ignores, or deceives. We’re going to look at all the things it doesn’t cover. We’re going to look at the dark side.

If you want to live your dreams – or even have dreams and some hope – you need to confront the more unpleasant truths.

Gear up. Let’s get ugly.

– Steven Savage

Steven Savage is a Geek 2.0 writer, speaker, blogger, and job coach.  He blogs on careers at http://www.musehack.com/, publishes books on career and culture at http://www.informotron.com/, and does a site of creative tools at http://www.seventhsanctum.com/. He can be reached at https://www.stevensavage.com/.

Job Basics: Roundup

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And here’s the roundup of the Job Basics series.  For those of you that are new here (or came to see it), the goal was to list out job search basics, focusing on the geek audience here, as a reference.

  • Why I did this in the first place.  Seriously, you may want to know.
  • The Goal.  Setting your goal is the start.
  • The Path.  Once you know where you want to go, you have to figure out how to get there.
  • Growth.  Your path is going to require you to grow and develop to get to your goal.
  • Awareness.  Things are happening all the time that can affect your career – being aware is vital.
  • Tools.  The things you need on your job search and for your career.
  • The Search.  How to do a good job search – and adapt it.
  • The Social.  Hw to make your career part of your life.

Thanks for everyone who inspired it – and I hope it helps you.

 
– Steven Savage

Steven Savage is a Geek 2.0 writer, speaker, blogger, and job coach.  He blogs on careers at http://www.musehack.com/, publishes books on career and culture at http://www.informotron.com/, and does a site of creative tools at http://www.seventhsanctum.com/. He can be reached at https://www.stevensavage.com/.

Job Basics: The Social

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People And Profile

You’ve got your resume, you’ve researched your career, you’re on the search.  In fact, you may even have a good job or found one and are well on your way.  There’s one final factor I wanted to address – the social side of your job and your career.

Now I’m not talking about hanging out with your co-workers, though if you like them well enough go for it.  Nor am I talking only about Networking.  I’m talking about opportunities to both connect with people, connect professionally with people, and just have fun exist.

The hard truth about many good jobs, good careers, and successful people is that being social is part of it.  Connecting, networking, learning, joining.  It makes it part of your life and helps you meet people like yourself, and it lets you take what you want to do and do more with it.  A career, alone, isolated from the rest of your life, is not for everyone.

By making sure you socialize with people like you, with groups that do what you do, you help get a larger, visceral sense of what’s important and what’s going on.  You learn about what’s coming, you get the lingo, and in some cases you discover you really, really don’t like where things are going . . .

Finally, you can enjoy the events, parties, seminars, and more out there.  You can have fun with your career.

So here’s how to take your social side and use it in your career.

Networking And Linked In

Yeah, yeah, I’ve said this before.  Network and join LinkedIn.  I also warned that this stuff had to be repeated for a reason.  So I’m repeating it.

The thing is that good networking isn’t just about job connections, as noted, there’s often fun events, parties, etc.  You may find social opportunities with people of like professions, so go and have a little fun.

Join A Professional Association

Seriously.  Join a professional association, a group of similar professionals or future professionals.  Do it now – I’ve got a list right here.

Professional associations, at least good ones, provide resources, events, classes, and social opportunities to meet, work, and learn with people like you or people you want to be like.  I don’t care if you’re a seasoned pro or just starting out, these are the people you want to hang out with – moreso if you’re new to the scene.

The opportunities are vast:

  • You meet people of similar interest – and whom you can learn from.
  • There are resources, classes, magazines and more to help you out and keep you connected.
  • Assorted events are usually held by associations, from serious classes to charities to fun social events.
  • Meeting people like yourself can help you get motivated.
  • It looks good on a resume.

Really, go join a professional association.

Join A Club Or Meetup

If you’re near any kind of large city – and even if you’re not – there’s probably assorted clubs or events at www.meetup.com that fit your professional interests.  You just have to look for them online, in your local paper, and so on.

The benefits are the same as a professional association – people to meet, changes to socialize, opportunities to learn.  It’s often less formal, there’s not certifications, and so on.  But it’s also something right in your area.

The lack of formality (compared to a professional association) is also an advantage.  It’s more fun, more social, more relaxed, and may do things no professional association would think of – or dare.  If you worry about getting “too professional” a club or meetup may be just for you.

Start A Group Project

I always recommend people have A Project to do – some big effort they do, at least partially for fun, that uses their skills and interests.  It could be a book, blog, indie game, something.  But having A Project means you’re focusing, learning, growing, and doing something for real.  It teaches and uses both skills and meta-skills like organization.

So why not do one with other people.

Now I’m not saying you have to do this.  It’s just a suggestion.  But it has advantages:

  • You can do more with a team (usually) than on your own.
  • You meet people, socialize, and connect both within and without your area of interest – you may want to write on video games, and meeting a webmaster may give you a new appreciation of technology.
  • You can work with each other to promote your work.
  • You learn to work with people
  • There are pure social and fun opportunities.

For me, my Group Project is Crossroads Alpha, and it’s definitely been worth it.

Look For Lectures, Seminars, And More

You want to learn more about your profession, and meet people of similar interests, and have fun.  Go look for lectures, seminars, and film showings in your professional vein.

If you’ve got colleges, schools, museums, libraries, and so forth within a reasonable distance, there’s probably a few lectures and so forth going on now and then – and all the time if you’re in a major urban area.  A check of a college website, local news site, and so on will give you enough.  Some colleges even send out information on adult education and seminars in the ancient form called “mail.”

These are a grab-bag, dependent on your location and the institutions there, but they provide all sorts of diversity and learning opportunities.  In a few cases local clubs and meetups may even go to said events, letting you double up the professional socialization.

And who knows, you might even be qualified to do one someday . . .

Stay Social, My Friends

The social aspect of our careers can be easily ignored or forgotten – sometimes it’s obvious, sometimes it’s not.  But by making it a part of your life, you’ll take your ambitions and your passions farther.  They won’t be isolated – they’ll be a part of your larger social picture.

And you may even have fun with your career.  Which is always nice.

– Steven Savage

Steven Savage is a Geek 2.0 writer, speaker, blogger, and job coach.  He blogs on careers at http://www.musehack.com/, publishes books on career and culture at http://www.informotron.com/, and does a site of creative tools at http://www.seventhsanctum.com/. He can be reached at https://www.stevensavage.com/.