Progreek Pride: Communication In The Geek Nation

Halo action figures once made my job easier.

I had to get to know a team operating several servers on a project I worked on at a past employer – and being the Project Manager I had to get to know everyone.  This included people who I'd never met,  on a team I didn't know existed.  I needed to get to know them – and get some things moving project-wise.

Fortunately, someone had Halo action figures.  Sensing a fellow geek, I struck up a conversation with that team member, and had an instant in to the team.

Being an unrepentant geek helped my communications with others.

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Weekly Challenge: Pre-Conflict Perspectives

With great power comes the chance for great stupidity.

OK it's not exactly the touching saying we all associate with Spider Man, but it's a sad truth.  Power, from the power of physical force to the subtleties of charisma to the abilities granted from knowledge, gives us not just the ability to do things, but the ability to do very stupid things that have incredible impact.

The difference between doing the right thing and doing the wrong thing is often a matter of degree.  You need wisdom to know that degree.

So your exercise this week is to figure out where you may do something very, very stupid.  You know, beyond the other things you've done.

  1. List all the top 3 to 5 things you are good at or have influence in – skills you have, leadership you perform in your fandom, someone's ear you have.
  2. Now for each, ask how you could take those skills too far and cause damage.  Could your leadership at work end up pitting departments against each other if you keep up your rah-rah attitude?  Could your next novel be even better selling if you pandered a bit, but you know that would take you in the direction of being hack.

Think of what you could do – so you know when to stop before a benefit becomes a problem.

– Steven Savage

Pro-Fan/Pro-Geek Pride: The Relaxation Orientation

If you're a geek, a fanboy, fangirl, otaku, sports nut, what have you be proud that you know how to relax.

Seriously.  You know how to relax.  You know what you like, as I've said further, and that's not just important in your career, but in your life.  You have a life – a life where you know what you enjoy doing to blow off steam.

Think for a moment how fortunate you are to know that three issues of manga will help you chill out after a month of software releases.  Be glad that you know a marathon World of Warcraft session will restore your sanity after you met your publishing deadline.  Appreciate the fact that ESPN is therapeutic after a hard day at the hospital.

Thats one of your advantages as a progeek – when you've got too much pro going on (or too much else going on), you've still got the geek to help you get back in touch with yourself and in general just have fun.  Knowing how to have fun means you can relax and refresh.  Being relaxed and refreshed means you can recover from stress – or face stress that's still out there.

So embrace your geekines, progeek.  Your geekiness gives you a way to come down from a bad day that some people don't have.  Imagine what it would be like not to have your DVD collection, or your love of retrogaming, or your stack of well-worn Warhammer 40K novels.  Take a moment to feel some sympathy for those unable to relax as you do (and perhaps vow to help them out).

You're a progeek.  It's not just about your ability to work using fannish inclinations – you also have the ability to use your fandom to relax.

– Steven Savage